The Power of Linking Consequences & Behavior
When applying consequences, being purposeful can make all the difference in helping your kids learn and grow. One powerful technique is LINKING — connecting the consequence to your child’s behavior while highlighting the positive values involved. Imagine this: You’re 12 years old and just completed a tough math assignment. Scenario 1: Your mom walks by and says, “Nice job,” then heads to the family room. Scenario 2: Your mom makes eye contact and says, “Well done! You put a lot of effort into your homework, especially math. That shows perseverance and accountability.” Notice the difference? In just a few extra seconds, the second example not only praises your hard work but also reinforces the values of perseverance and accountability. This is the power of linking. 💪✨ How can you practice linking with your kids today?